The Hermit in Love
The The Hermit card in a love and relationship spread: solitude, wisdom, searching for an answer, inner light.
Author: Max Raputum, Warsaw
Meaning of The Hermit in love
The Hermit in love speaks of solitude, reflection and cautious closeness. It is a time for understanding yourself, not for stormy romances.
The Hermit reversed in relationships
The reversed Hermit points to isolation, withdrawal or, on the contrary, running from loneliness into chance ties. Perhaps you are drifting away more than you want.
For singles
To singles the card advises not rushing acquaintances: now it matters more to understand what you want. Being alone here is a period of preparation, not a sentence.
If you are in a relationship
In a couple the Hermit says that one of you or both need personal space. A pause is not a break-up if you agree on it.
After a breakup
After a breakup the card advises spending time alone and working out what this relationship taught you. It is too early to decide about returning.
Advice from the card
Set aside an evening for yourself without phone and messengers, and then tell your partner what you needed.
Questions for yourself
Ask yourself three questions: where in my relationship does “solitude” show itself? What is missing in it of “wisdom”? What will change if I allow myself “searching for an answer” without looking back at expectations?
About the The Hermit card
The Hermit (IX, Virgo). The keywords of the card: solitude, wisdom, searching for an answer, inner light. This card corresponds to the sign of Virgo, so in questions about feelings and relationships it is often linked with the people and themes of that sign. The general interpretation upright and reversed is on the page of the card.
The The Hermit card in other questions
Frequently asked questions
What does the The Hermit card mean in love?
The Hermit in love speaks of solitude, reflection and cautious closeness. It is a time for understanding yourself, not for stormy romances.
What does The Hermit reversed mean in relationships?
The reversed Hermit points to isolation, withdrawal or, on the contrary, running from loneliness into chance ties. Perhaps you are drifting away more than you want.
What does The Hermit mean for singles?
To singles the card advises not rushing acquaintances: now it matters more to understand what you want. Being alone here is a period of preparation, not a sentence.