Temperance in Love
The Temperance card in a love and relationship spread: balance, moderation, patience, healing.
Author: Max Raputum, Warsaw
Meaning of Temperance in love
Temperance in love is harmony, balance and gradual closeness. The relationship is built without abrupt moves, and everyone finds their own measure.
Temperance reversed in relationships
The reversed Temperance speaks of extremes, imbalance or impatience. Perhaps you either give everything or pull away.
For singles
To singles the card advises not hurrying and looking for a person you feel calm with. Balance matters more than flashes.
If you are in a relationship
In a couple Temperance suggests looking for the golden mean between “I” and “we”. Good for patient talks and shared rituals.
After a breakup
After a breakup the card speaks of gradual healing. Do not try to speed the process up, let it go at its own pace.
Advice from the card
Find the place in the relationship where you overdo it, and take a step towards the middle.
Questions for yourself
Ask yourself three questions: where in my relationship does “balance” show itself? What is missing in it of “moderation”? What will change if I allow myself “patience” without looking back at expectations?
About the Temperance card
Temperance (XIV, Sagittarius). The keywords of the card: balance, moderation, patience, healing. This card corresponds to the sign of Sagittarius, so in questions about feelings and relationships it is often linked with the people and themes of that sign. The general interpretation upright and reversed is on the page of the card.
The Temperance card in other questions
Frequently asked questions
What does the Temperance card mean in love?
Temperance in love is harmony, balance and gradual closeness. The relationship is built without abrupt moves, and everyone finds their own measure.
What does Temperance reversed mean in relationships?
The reversed Temperance speaks of extremes, imbalance or impatience. Perhaps you either give everything or pull away.
What does Temperance mean for singles?
To singles the card advises not hurrying and looking for a person you feel calm with. Balance matters more than flashes.