Five of Wands in Love
The Five of Wands card in a love and relationship spread: competition, argument, chaos, a fight for position.
Author: Max Raputum, Warsaw
Meaning of Five of Wands in love
The Five of Wands in love is arguments, rivalry and the energy of conflict. Five people wave staffs without a goal: this is what a quarrel looks like in which everyone wants to be right.
Five of Wands reversed in relationships
The reversed Five speaks of the end of a conflict or of avoiding an argument that is needed. The tension goes, but questions may remain unsettled.
For singles
To singles the card points to competition or to romances with too much ego. Choose acquaintances in which you do not have to prove your position all the time.
If you are in a relationship
In a couple the Five speaks of small quarrels and a fight for leadership. It matters to tell a healthy argument from a habit of poking at each other and to agree on rules.
After a breakup
After a breakup the card speaks of drawn-out claims and sorting out who is to blame. Stop: there will be no victory in such an argument.
Advice from the card
Before arguing, say aloud what you want to achieve by the talk and check whether it matches what you are doing.
Questions for yourself
Ask yourself three questions: where in my relationship does “competition” show itself? What is missing in it of “argument”? What will change if I allow myself “chaos” without looking back at expectations?
About the Five of Wands card
Five of Wands is a card of the suit of Wands, element fire. The keywords of the card: competition, argument, chaos, a fight for position. In questions about feelings and relationships it works through its key themes, not through specific events. The general interpretation upright and reversed is on the page of the card.
The Five of Wands card in other questions
Frequently asked questions
What does the Five of Wands card mean in love?
The Five of Wands in love is arguments, rivalry and the energy of conflict. Five people wave staffs without a goal: this is what a quarrel looks like in which everyone wants to be right.
What does Five of Wands reversed mean in relationships?
The reversed Five speaks of the end of a conflict or of avoiding an argument that is needed. The tension goes, but questions may remain unsettled.
What does Five of Wands mean for singles?
To singles the card points to competition or to romances with too much ego. Choose acquaintances in which you do not have to prove your position all the time.